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Charles William Eliot

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Lolita

Here’s what happened at Book Club…

What a night! As anticipated Lolita spawned quite the discussion. At one end were those who HATED it (“Bart Simpson wrote better!”) feeling that the author must have had the same desires as Humbert to write about the topic as he did. In the middle were those who found the subject matter very uncomfortable but thought it was well written and very funny in places – Humbert Humbert’s contemplation of drowning poor old Charlotte only to have her flattened as she ran across the street – a little Desperate Housewives perhaps?.. A few really enjoyed it despite (or perhaps because) of the feelings of discomfort it aroused.

LolitaPam rocked as our host with some great thought provoking questions and activites. Would our feelings have been different had the book been written in the 1800s or set in another culture? What role did Lolita (Delores) play in the seduction (abuse)? Did Humbert really love her? Why the hell did the author give him the name Humbert Humbert?!? How do we reconcile the rampant sexualization of young girls while discouraging their natural sexual expression?

In addition to the discussion these questions brought,  Pam had a number of provocative advertising images of young girls and asked us to guess the ages. Some were shocking with the models ranging from 6 years old to 14. These were followed up by actual statistic of when girls were ‘marriageable’ in various cultures and religious sects. Needless to say, with this group, all this did not occur in a straight line! There were a few detours….

  • Is ear piercing included in the legislation banning tattoos and piercing until age 16 – either way better to be pierced than tattooed as the holes will grow over
  • very annoying that if you’re 40+ and downtown its assumed you’re trying to get picked up!… ok maybe we are but it’s a piss off that people assume it…
  • Toms shoes… what they heck are they? Ugly. But apparently they’re in. Who knew??…
  • Teenage girls: the layered look, pencil skirts, spandex shorts, unavoidable cleavage and unwanted cover ups
  • Babysitting back in the day and unsuccessful (thank God!) attempts at seduction
  • Perception of age and wide age differences in couples – the biases and discomfort of others, and the difficulties of maintaining  the relationship over time.
  • disco sticks, masturbation and why radio station’s beep out the word ‘shit’ but leave in BJ descriptions

Book Club Prizes!If you think the night couldn’t get better Krista used us as guinia pigs for her peanut butter & jelly cupcakes (YUMMY!) and Pam had very special prizes. She made 2 beautiful bags modeled after the one featured on our Facebook page several weeks ago and drew names for them. Toddy and Jennifer were the lucky winners! Aren’t the bags pretty? The prizes are cute too!

It was a fantastic night and the much anticipated discussion did not disappoint. Hats off Pam for fantastic food and for leading a wonderful discussion.

 

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Living in beautiful St. John's NL, our book club members are as diverse and interesting as our book selections. Read More

Our Book Club Reading List

We’ve read a little bit of everything over the years. Whether you’re a book club looking for some ideas about what to read or just want a good book to curl up in bed with this reading list should help!

  • 110. Women Talking | Miriam Toews | Cathy’s Pick
  • 109. Where the Crawdads Sing | Delia Owens | Alison’s Pick
  • 108. Everything I Never Told You | Celeste NG | Toddy’s Pick
  • 107. Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe | Fannie Flagg | Peggy’s Pick
  • 106. The Innocents | Michael Crummey | Kelly’s Picks
  • 105. The Alice Network | Kate Quinn | Kathy’s Pick
  • 104. Green Grass Running Water | Thomas King | Liz’s Pick
  • 103. Girl, Stop Apologizing | Rachel Hollis | Kelly’s Pick
  • 102. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine | Gail Honeyman | Alison’s Pick
  • 101. The Next Thing On My List | Jill Smolinski | Toddy’s Pick
  • 100. River Thieves | Michael Crummey | Peggy’s Pick
  • 99. Before We Were Yours | Lisa Wingate | Kathy’s Pick
  • 98. Most Anything You Please | Trudy Morgan Cole | Cathy’s Pick
  • 97. Into the Water | Paula Hawkins | Toddy’s Pick
  • 96. Difficult Women | Grove Atlantic | Pam’s Pick
  • 95. Neuromancer | William Gibson | Andrea’s Pick
  • 94. Something Is Always On Fire | Measha Brueggergosman | Liz’s Pick
  • 93. Rock Paper Sex | Kerri Cull | Peggy’s Pick
  • 92. We’ll All Be Burnt In Our Beds Some Night | Joel Thomas Hynes | Kathy’s Pick
  • 91. Cutting for Stone | Abraham Verghese | Cathy’s Pick
  • 90. Bear Town | Fredrik Backman | Kelly’s Pick
  • 89. Caught | Lisa Moore | Alison’s Pick
  • 88. Let’s Pretend This Never Happened | Jenny Lawson | Andrea’s Pick
  • 87. Found Far and Wide | Kevin Major | Toddy’s Pick
  • 86. The Sparrow | Author Mary Doria Russell | Pam’s Pick
  • 85. Tomboy Survival Guide | Author Ivan Coyote | Liz’s Pick
  • 84. Rush Oh! | Author Shirley Barrett | Kathy’s Pick
  • 83. The Invention of Wings | Author Sue Monk Kidd | Toddy’s Pick
  • 82. No Longer Human | Author Osamu Dazai | Kelly’s Pick
  • 81. The Nest | Author Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney | Peggy’s Pick
  • 80. I’m Thinking of Ending Things | Author Iain Reid | Alison’s Pick

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